"I believe very strongly that when it comes to desire, when it comes to attraction, that things are never black and white, things are very much shades of grey"
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The intent is less philosophical than protective. By insisting on ambiguity, Molko defends the right to be unreadable on demand. That’s a very late-90s/early-2000s posture, especially for a frontman whose public image traded in androgyny and provocation: not as a gimmick, but as armor against a tabloid culture hungry to label, reduce, and scandalize. In that environment, “I believe very strongly” matters; it’s a stake in the ground against both conservative panic and the more subtle pressures of “pick a side” identity politics.
Subtextually, it’s also an aesthetic argument. Placebo’s music often thrives on emotional crosswiring - tenderness with menace, glamour with self-disgust - and this quote describes that same palette in romantic terms. Desire, for Molko, isn’t a tidy self-knowledge project. It’s a force that reveals how porous the self can be, how attraction ignores the boundaries we pretend are principles.
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Molko, Brian. (2026, January 14). I believe very strongly that when it comes to desire, when it comes to attraction, that things are never black and white, things are very much shades of grey. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-very-strongly-that-when-it-comes-to-38727/
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Molko, Brian. "I believe very strongly that when it comes to desire, when it comes to attraction, that things are never black and white, things are very much shades of grey." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-very-strongly-that-when-it-comes-to-38727/.
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"I believe very strongly that when it comes to desire, when it comes to attraction, that things are never black and white, things are very much shades of grey." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-very-strongly-that-when-it-comes-to-38727/. Accessed 1 Mar. 2026.











