"I both love and do not love; and am mad and not mad"
About this Quote
Anacreon wrote in archaic Greece, in the orbit of the symposium culture where wine, song, flirtation, and status games braided together. In that setting, love isn’t private authenticity; it’s a public sport with real stakes. The speaker’s contradiction reads like a defense mechanism: by confessing instability, he preempts judgment. You can’t shame a man who’s already turned his own confusion into art.
The subtext is less “I’m conflicted” than “I’m not in charge.” Eros arrives as a force that scrambles categories we use to stay respectable: rational/irrational, in control/out of control, sincere/performative. Anacreon’s brilliance is the refusal to resolve it. Later thinkers (and poets) will build entire philosophies on taming desire; Anacreon just documents the sensation of being temporarily rewritten by it.
Even the rhythm of the statement matters: the double “and” stacks oppositions like a hangover ledger, insisting the halves coexist. It’s witty, but not cute. The joke is that love makes you sound insane precisely when you’re reporting the truth.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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Anacreon. (2026, January 17). I both love and do not love; and am mad and not mad. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-both-love-and-do-not-love-and-am-mad-and-not-mad-38760/
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Anacreon. "I both love and do not love; and am mad and not mad." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-both-love-and-do-not-love-and-am-mad-and-not-mad-38760/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I both love and do not love; and am mad and not mad." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-both-love-and-do-not-love-and-am-mad-and-not-mad-38760/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.








