"I came from a broken home, so my mom was a major influence in my life"
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The subtext is a quiet rebuke to the way celebrity biographies fetishize absence, especially fathers. By naming the home as “broken” and not lingering there, Erving signals that the damage was real but not destiny. The emphasis shifts to presence: a mother who wasn’t merely “supportive,” but “a major influence,” which in athlete-speak covers everything from discipline and self-belief to basic survival logistics. It’s also a way of acknowledging that the famous “Dr. J” polish - grace under pressure, charisma without chaos - had an origin story rooted in caretaking, not in some innate superhero gene.
Context matters: a Black athlete coming of age in mid-century America, later marketed as elegance personified in the ABA/NBA, offers a counter-narrative to stereotypes that often framed Black family life as pathology. He doesn’t argue; he testifies. The power is its plainness: he credits the labor that rarely makes highlight reels, turning a private debt into a public value statement.
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Erving, Julius. (2026, January 17). I came from a broken home, so my mom was a major influence in my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-came-from-a-broken-home-so-my-mom-was-a-major-80670/
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Erving, Julius. "I came from a broken home, so my mom was a major influence in my life." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-came-from-a-broken-home-so-my-mom-was-a-major-80670/.
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"I came from a broken home, so my mom was a major influence in my life." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-came-from-a-broken-home-so-my-mom-was-a-major-80670/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.





