"I can only hope that neither of my daughters was scarred by their upbringing"
About this Quote
The specific intent feels like late-life moral accounting. “I can only hope” is a small sentence of powerlessness from a man who spent decades commanding orchestras with near-military authority. It suggests a recognition that you don’t get to conduct a family the way you conduct Mahler: children don’t follow a score, and the audience doesn’t applaud the effort. The subtext is a fear that the habits that make a career - impatience, perfectionism, emotional triage in service of the work - become, at home, a kind of weather system everyone else must endure.
Context sharpens it. Solti’s life ran through the 20th century’s hardest edges: dislocation, war, reinvention, the immigrant grind of building a legacy in new institutions. That history can breed both drive and emotional austerity. The quote’s sting is that it’s not self-pity; it’s an acknowledgment that achievement can be a beautiful public sound built on private strain, and that the people closest to the music sometimes pay the steepest price.
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| Topic | Daughter |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Solti, Georg. (2026, January 16). I can only hope that neither of my daughters was scarred by their upbringing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-only-hope-that-neither-of-my-daughters-was-124451/
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Solti, Georg. "I can only hope that neither of my daughters was scarred by their upbringing." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-only-hope-that-neither-of-my-daughters-was-124451/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I can only hope that neither of my daughters was scarred by their upbringing." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-only-hope-that-neither-of-my-daughters-was-124451/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.






