"I can only know what love is, insofar as I can feel it"
About this Quote
The subtext has teeth. It challenges the cultural habit of treating love as an identity badge (“I’m a loving person”), a moral credential, or a storyline you can narrate into existence. McCambridge is saying the only honest access point is the felt experience - the pulse, the ache, the risk. Anything else is commentary. That stance also exposes how easily language becomes camouflage: people talk about love to avoid it, to control it, or to sell it. Her framing strips away the safety of abstraction and asks a simpler, more uncomfortable question: are you actually feeling anything, or just reciting?
Context matters because McCambridge’s era prized stoicism and polish, especially for women in public life. This line pushes back against that discipline. It treats emotion not as weakness but as evidence - the one kind of proof that can’t be faked for long, even by a professional.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McCambridge, Mercedes. (2026, February 18). I can only know what love is, insofar as I can feel it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-only-know-what-love-is-insofar-as-i-can-73435/
Chicago Style
McCambridge, Mercedes. "I can only know what love is, insofar as I can feel it." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-only-know-what-love-is-insofar-as-i-can-73435/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I can only know what love is, insofar as I can feel it." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-only-know-what-love-is-insofar-as-i-can-73435/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.












