"I can remember Doris Day before she was a virgin"
About this Quote
The intent isn’t really to smear Day as much as to puncture the polite fiction that stardom is natural innocence rather than carefully managed performance. The punchline depends on a cultural script: that a woman’s value and marketability can be indexed to sexual purity, and that “before she was a virgin” is absurd because virginity is supposed to be a fixed state, not something you can acquire. That grammatical impossibility is the sting; it exposes virginity as a role you can be cast into.
Context matters: Levant, a composer and pianist known for acidic one-liners and self-lacerating candor, made a career out of needling American respectability, including his own. The joke’s cynicism is period-accurate: mid-century entertainment thrived on moral packaging while running on adult appetites and gossip. It’s witty, mean, and revealing all at once - less a confession about Day than an autopsy of the culture that needed her to be perpetually, profitably pure.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: The Memoirs of an Amnesiac (Oscar Levant, 1965)
Evidence:
My last picture for Warners was Romance on the High Seas. It was Doris Day’s first picture; that was before she became a virgin. (Page 192 (per multiple secondary references; edition-dependent pagination)). This appears to be the closest verifiable primary-source form of the quip, in Oscar Levant’s own published memoir (1965). Many later retellings paraphrase it as “I knew Doris Day before she was a virgin” or “I can remember Doris Day before she was a virgin,” but the wording above is the memoir-style version tied to the film Romance on the High Seas. Open Library confirms the book’s bibliographic details (1965; G. P. Putnam’s Sons; 320 pages). |
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Levant, Oscar. (2026, February 22). I can remember Doris Day before she was a virgin. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-remember-doris-day-before-she-was-a-virgin-110986/
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Levant, Oscar. "I can remember Doris Day before she was a virgin." FixQuotes. February 22, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-remember-doris-day-before-she-was-a-virgin-110986/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I can remember Doris Day before she was a virgin." FixQuotes, 22 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-remember-doris-day-before-she-was-a-virgin-110986/. Accessed 13 Mar. 2026.




