"I cannot be so bad when everybody is so fond of me"
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The real engine here is “fond.” Not “impressed,” not “moved,” not “respectful” - fond. It’s affection, intimacy, a social permission slip. Clara’s world often allowed women to be adored more readily than it allowed them to be authoritative. She leverages that cultural loophole: if affection is granted, maybe legitimacy can piggyback on it. The sentence is both self-protection and self-erasure, measuring artistic value by likability, as if excellence needs to wear charm to be accepted.
Context sharpens the irony. Clara was not merely a performer but a composer and one of Europe’s most formidable pianists, carrying a career while navigating marriage to Robert Schumann, motherhood, and relentless scrutiny. Read this way, the quote is less naïve than tactical: a moment of psychological triage from someone trained to convert applause into oxygen, because the culture wasn’t going to hand her certainty for free.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schumann, Clara. (2026, January 15). I cannot be so bad when everybody is so fond of me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-be-so-bad-when-everybody-is-so-fond-of-me-148693/
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Schumann, Clara. "I cannot be so bad when everybody is so fond of me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-be-so-bad-when-everybody-is-so-fond-of-me-148693/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I cannot be so bad when everybody is so fond of me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-be-so-bad-when-everybody-is-so-fond-of-me-148693/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







