"I cannot forget a conversation that I had with an elderly couple from the tribe. They asked me whether I would kill them after I had finished. When I asked them why they asked that, they replied, Because you white men always do!"
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The intent is to expose how violence becomes an expectation when power arrives wearing the mask of curiosity, commerce, or even benevolence. “After I had finished” is chillingly vague - finished filming, finished visiting, finished taking what he came for. That ambiguity mirrors the way extraction works: outsiders show up to record, map, convert, buy, or “help,” then leave behind a scar. The elders speak from intergenerational memory, not ideology; their certainty suggests they’ve seen the end of this story before.
Subtextually, the quote indicts not just individual racism or cruelty but a system that normalizes disposability. “You white men” is blunt, not because it’s rhetorical flourish, but because euphemism is a luxury for people who aren’t regularly on the receiving end of history. It also catches Joffe in the frame: even as a sympathetic observer, he’s part of the apparatus that can enter, represent, and depart.
Context matters: Joffe’s work (especially The Mission) is preoccupied with colonial encounter, faith, and atrocity. This anecdote reads like a behind-the-scenes origin story for that obsession - a moment when the romance of “going to film the other” collapses into the older truth that the camera often arrives alongside conquest.
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| Topic | Human Rights |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Joffe, Roland. (2026, January 18). I cannot forget a conversation that I had with an elderly couple from the tribe. They asked me whether I would kill them after I had finished. When I asked them why they asked that, they replied, Because you white men always do! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-forget-a-conversation-that-i-had-with-an-3548/
Chicago Style
Joffe, Roland. "I cannot forget a conversation that I had with an elderly couple from the tribe. They asked me whether I would kill them after I had finished. When I asked them why they asked that, they replied, Because you white men always do!" FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-forget-a-conversation-that-i-had-with-an-3548/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I cannot forget a conversation that I had with an elderly couple from the tribe. They asked me whether I would kill them after I had finished. When I asked them why they asked that, they replied, Because you white men always do!" FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-forget-a-conversation-that-i-had-with-an-3548/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



