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Love Quote by Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton

"I cannot love as I have loved, And yet I know not why; It is the one great woe of life To feel all feeling die"

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A Victorian public man admitting emotional depletion is its own kind of scandal. Bulwer-Lytton, a politician steeped in the era’s stiff moral theater, writes like someone who has discovered the most subversive truth imaginable: not heartbreak, but numbness. The lines don’t dramatize a lover’s exit so much as the terrifying quiet afterward, when the self keeps going but the inner voltage drops. That’s why “I know not why” lands hardest. He won’t offer the consolations of a clear cause - betrayal, time, sin, fate. The speaker can’t even narrate his loss, and that narrative failure becomes the loss.

The craft is in the repetition and the tightening circle. “I cannot love as I have loved” sets up an expectation of change with a reason; the next line refuses it. The poem’s music is deliberately plain, almost parliamentary: balanced clauses, clean diction, no lush imagery. It reads like testimony. Then the pivot to “the one great woe of life” quietly escalates the private problem into a political-scale claim: the true catastrophe isn’t pain, it’s the collapse of the capacity to feel pain.

Context matters. Bulwer-Lytton moved in a culture that prized self-command and distrusted excess. In that light, the poem registers as both confession and critique: a warning about what relentless performance - of respectability, duty, power - can do to the interior life. The subtext is exhaustion masquerading as maturity, the soul’s early retirement dressed up as composure.

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Bulwer-Lytton, Edward G. (2026, January 14). I cannot love as I have loved, And yet I know not why; It is the one great woe of life To feel all feeling die. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-love-as-i-have-loved-and-yet-i-know-not-16978/

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Bulwer-Lytton, Edward G. "I cannot love as I have loved, And yet I know not why; It is the one great woe of life To feel all feeling die." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-love-as-i-have-loved-and-yet-i-know-not-16978/.

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"I cannot love as I have loved, And yet I know not why; It is the one great woe of life To feel all feeling die." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-love-as-i-have-loved-and-yet-i-know-not-16978/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton

Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton (May 25, 1803 - January 18, 1873) was a Politician from England.

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