"I cannot love as I have loved, And yet I know not why; It is the one great woe of life To feel all feeling die"
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The craft is in the repetition and the tightening circle. “I cannot love as I have loved” sets up an expectation of change with a reason; the next line refuses it. The poem’s music is deliberately plain, almost parliamentary: balanced clauses, clean diction, no lush imagery. It reads like testimony. Then the pivot to “the one great woe of life” quietly escalates the private problem into a political-scale claim: the true catastrophe isn’t pain, it’s the collapse of the capacity to feel pain.
Context matters. Bulwer-Lytton moved in a culture that prized self-command and distrusted excess. In that light, the poem registers as both confession and critique: a warning about what relentless performance - of respectability, duty, power - can do to the interior life. The subtext is exhaustion masquerading as maturity, the soul’s early retirement dressed up as composure.
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| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bulwer-Lytton, Edward G. (2026, January 14). I cannot love as I have loved, And yet I know not why; It is the one great woe of life To feel all feeling die. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-love-as-i-have-loved-and-yet-i-know-not-16978/
Chicago Style
Bulwer-Lytton, Edward G. "I cannot love as I have loved, And yet I know not why; It is the one great woe of life To feel all feeling die." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-love-as-i-have-loved-and-yet-i-know-not-16978/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I cannot love as I have loved, And yet I know not why; It is the one great woe of life To feel all feeling die." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-love-as-i-have-loved-and-yet-i-know-not-16978/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








