"I cannot make the universe obey me. I cannot make other people conform to my own whims and fancies. I cannot make even my own body obey me"
About this Quote
The intent is diagnostic. By starting with the universe, then narrowing to other people, then landing on the body, Merton stages a descent from cosmic ambition to intimate fact. The progression matters: most of us fail at the first two and still pretend the third is negotiable. He punctures that delusion. Even the self is not a dictatorship; the body has its own weather, its own refusals, its own timeline. In an era increasingly infatuated with mastery - productivity systems, self-optimization, political certainty - Merton’s refusal reads like quiet rebellion.
The subtext is that suffering often comes less from pain than from the demand that reality should be different. "Whims and fancies" is slyly accusatory: it frames our supposed principles as pet preferences dressed up as necessity. He’s also warning against the moral hazard of control: once you believe the world should obey you, other people become obstacles instead of persons.
Contextually, Merton’s life as a Trappist monk and public intellectual sits behind the line: a man who chose silence yet watched history roar. The point isn’t passivity; it’s surrender as a precondition for sane action. You can’t steer the universe, but you can stop lying about the steering wheel.
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| Topic | Humility |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Merton, Thomas. (2026, January 15). I cannot make the universe obey me. I cannot make other people conform to my own whims and fancies. I cannot make even my own body obey me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-make-the-universe-obey-me-i-cannot-make-2081/
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Merton, Thomas. "I cannot make the universe obey me. I cannot make other people conform to my own whims and fancies. I cannot make even my own body obey me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-make-the-universe-obey-me-i-cannot-make-2081/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I cannot make the universe obey me. I cannot make other people conform to my own whims and fancies. I cannot make even my own body obey me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-make-the-universe-obey-me-i-cannot-make-2081/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








