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Aging & Wisdom Quote by Charles Stuart Calverley

"I cannot sing the old songs now! It is not that I deem them low, 'Tis that I can't remember how They go"

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Nostalgia gets punctured here with the kind of deadpan Calverley does best: the speaker strikes a grand, faintly moral pose about abandoning "old songs", then confesses the most banal reason possible - he simply can't remember the tune. The comedy hinges on that bait-and-switch. We expect a principled renunciation ("I deem them low"), the Victorian version of distancing yourself from something embarrassing. Instead, Calverley yanks the ladder away: taste and virtue are just cover stories for mental rust.

The subtext is sharper than the couplet makes it look. Forgetting becomes an anti-heroic form of change, the unglamorous engine behind reinvention. People like to narrate their evolving identities as deliberate upgrades; Calverley suggests they're often accidents of attention, age, and a mind that misplaces its own repertoire. The "old songs" can be literal - parlor music, sentimental favorites, college drinking tunes - but they also stand for habits, friendships, even former selves that were once easy to perform.

Form does a lot of the work. The tight rhyme and sing-song meter mimic the very thing the speaker claims to have lost, turning the poem into a tiny performance of its own argument: he can't recall the songs, yet he produces a catchy little verse about not recalling them. That self-canceling neatness is Calverley's wink. He isn't just mocking moral posturing; he's mocking the human need to dress up ordinary forgetfulness as a story of refined judgment.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Calverley, Charles Stuart. (2026, January 16). I cannot sing the old songs now! It is not that I deem them low, 'Tis that I can't remember how They go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-sing-the-old-songs-now-it-is-not-that-i-111650/

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Calverley, Charles Stuart. "I cannot sing the old songs now! It is not that I deem them low, 'Tis that I can't remember how They go." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-sing-the-old-songs-now-it-is-not-that-i-111650/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I cannot sing the old songs now! It is not that I deem them low, 'Tis that I can't remember how They go." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cannot-sing-the-old-songs-now-it-is-not-that-i-111650/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Charles Stuart Calverley (December 22, 1831 - February 17, 1884) was a Poet from England.

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