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Life's Pleasures Quote by Don Young

"I can't convince you to put the drink down if you're an alcoholic, you have to want to do that. I can't convince you to stop eating the cookies when you're a diabetic. You have to do that. And that takes responsibility"

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Don Young reaches for the bluntest kind of moral common sense: the idea that nobody can be saved against their will. The phrasing is deliberately plain, almost folksy, built on repetition ("I can't convince you... You have to...") that mimics a scolding conversation rather than a policy speech. That cadence isn’t accidental. It’s designed to close the door on arguments about outside help and open the door on a single, heavily loaded word: responsibility.

The analogies do rhetorical work by turning complex public-health and social problems into private habits. Alcoholism and diabetes aren’t chosen in a vacuum; they’re conditions with biology, environment, and unequal access to care baked in. Young uses them anyway because they carry a culturally familiar script: the addict who must hit bottom, the patient who must control cravings. That script nudges the listener toward a political conclusion without stating it outright: programs can’t fix people, and government shouldn’t be expected to.

Context matters because Young’s career was defined by a frontier-brand conservatism, skeptical of paternalism and impatient with what he’d frame as excuses. His intent is less about empathy for addicts or diabetics than about drawing a bright line around what society owes and what individuals owe themselves. The subtext is a quiet rebuke to therapeutic language and structural explanations; it’s a reminder that, in his worldview, the most important intervention is internal willpower.

It works because it’s rhetorically clean: two vivid, everyday scenarios, one takeaway. It also provokes because it compresses the messy middle - treatment, support systems, relapse, poverty - into a single moral demand.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Young, Don. (2026, January 16). I can't convince you to put the drink down if you're an alcoholic, you have to want to do that. I can't convince you to stop eating the cookies when you're a diabetic. You have to do that. And that takes responsibility. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-convince-you-to-put-the-drink-down-if-88136/

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Young, Don. "I can't convince you to put the drink down if you're an alcoholic, you have to want to do that. I can't convince you to stop eating the cookies when you're a diabetic. You have to do that. And that takes responsibility." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-convince-you-to-put-the-drink-down-if-88136/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I can't convince you to put the drink down if you're an alcoholic, you have to want to do that. I can't convince you to stop eating the cookies when you're a diabetic. You have to do that. And that takes responsibility." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-convince-you-to-put-the-drink-down-if-88136/. Accessed 8 Apr. 2026.

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Don Young (June 9, 1933 - March 18, 2022) was a Politician from USA.

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