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Love Quote by Viola Davis

"I can't deal with actors! I can't deal with myself. We're neurotic and miserable ... I love doing what I'm doing, but while I'm doing it, I'm miserable"

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Viola Davis takes the polished myth of the actor - charisma, craft, glamor - and flips it into something closer to a confession booth. The opening, "I can't deal with actors!" lands like a punchline, the kind of broad complaint you might hear at an industry party. Then she sharpens it: "I can't deal with myself". That pivot is the engine of the quote. What starts as an external jab becomes self-indictment, exposing that the real problem isn't "them" but the psychological machinery the job demands.

The bluntness works because it refuses the expected inspirational arc. Davis doesn't perform gratitude or resilience for the audience. She admits to the contradiction at the core of creative labor: loving the work and suffering inside it. Actors are paid to simulate feeling on command; the subtext here is the hangover from that performance, the way self-scrutiny becomes a lifestyle. "Neurotic and miserable" is less a stereotype than a diagnosis of a profession built on constant evaluation: auditions, notes, cameras, critics, the ever-present possibility that you're only as good as your last take.

Context matters: Davis has long been unusually candid about the costs of ambition, race, and visibility in an industry that sells stories while erasing the strain behind them. The quote reads as a refusal to romanticize artistry. It insists that fulfillment doesn't always look like happiness in the moment - sometimes it looks like enduring discomfort because the alternative is silence.

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Davis, Viola. (2026, January 18). I can't deal with actors! I can't deal with myself. We're neurotic and miserable ... I love doing what I'm doing, but while I'm doing it, I'm miserable. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-deal-with-actors-i-cant-deal-with-myself-21810/

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Davis, Viola. "I can't deal with actors! I can't deal with myself. We're neurotic and miserable ... I love doing what I'm doing, but while I'm doing it, I'm miserable." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-deal-with-actors-i-cant-deal-with-myself-21810/.

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"I can't deal with actors! I can't deal with myself. We're neurotic and miserable ... I love doing what I'm doing, but while I'm doing it, I'm miserable." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-deal-with-actors-i-cant-deal-with-myself-21810/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Viola Davis (born August 11, 1965) is a Actress from USA.

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