"I can't really have any friends. It's sad, really. It's lonely. But that's how I am"
About this Quote
The repetition of “It’s sad, really. It’s lonely” works because it’s blunt and unguarded, the kind of plainspoken admission athletes rarely get rewarded for. Moss was often cast as mercurial, misunderstood, or difficult; the quote reads like a rebuttal to that caricature. It suggests that what looks like aloofness can be self-protection, and what looks like arrogance can be exhaustion from constant interpretation.
Then comes the pivot: “But that’s how I am.” It’s resignation with a trace of self-diagnosis, a performance of toughness that still lets grief leak through. The subtext isn’t “pity me.” It’s “stop asking me to be available.” In a culture that sells celebrity as hyper-connection, Moss names the private cost: success can buy you attention while quietly bankrupting intimacy.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Moss, Randy. (n.d.). I can't really have any friends. It's sad, really. It's lonely. But that's how I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-really-have-any-friends-its-sad-really-its-73276/
Chicago Style
Moss, Randy. "I can't really have any friends. It's sad, really. It's lonely. But that's how I am." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-really-have-any-friends-its-sad-really-its-73276/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I can't really have any friends. It's sad, really. It's lonely. But that's how I am." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-really-have-any-friends-its-sad-really-its-73276/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







