"I can't remember too much about the '80s, to be honest with you... I wish that weren't true, but it is"
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Hay came up inside a period that chewed musicians up with equal parts fame, touring, and chemical lubrication. Saying he “can’t remember too much” is the classic rock-star line, but the second sentence flips it from boast to bruise. “I wish that weren’t true” drains the glamour out of the amnesia. It’s not “look how wild I was”; it’s “look what it cost.” The subtext is regret without melodrama: he’s not staging redemption, just admitting a gap he can’t fill in.
There’s also a cultural tell in the way we mythologize the ’80s as a brand. For artists who actually lived it, the decade often wasn’t a curated vibe; it was work, pressure, and coping mechanisms that don’t photograph well. Hay’s honesty punctures the consumer-friendly story of the era and replaces it with something more human: the idea that success can be real and still feel partially unrecoverable, like you survived your own highlight reel but lost the tape.
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| Topic | Nostalgia |
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Hay, Colin. (2026, January 16). I can't remember too much about the '80s, to be honest with you... I wish that weren't true, but it is. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-remember-too-much-about-the-80s-to-be-128183/
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Hay, Colin. "I can't remember too much about the '80s, to be honest with you... I wish that weren't true, but it is." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-remember-too-much-about-the-80s-to-be-128183/.
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"I can't remember too much about the '80s, to be honest with you... I wish that weren't true, but it is." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-remember-too-much-about-the-80s-to-be-128183/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

