"I can't say I don't get nervous, but I really kind of enjoy performing now"
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The phrasing is deliberately unglamorous. "Can't say I don't" is a double negative that sounds like someone choosing honesty over branding. "Really kind of" softens the declaration, as if she's resisting the cliché of triumph. That hedging is the subtext: joy doesn't require total fearlessness, and adulthood doesn't always arrive with tidy epiphanies. It arrives with ambivalence you can live inside.
Context matters because Phair's career has always been entangled with expectations about authenticity: the indie icon who became a mainstream lightning rod, the songwriter read as diarist, the woman onstage whose credibility got policed harder than her male peers'. Enjoying performance "now" suggests a renegotiation of those old contracts. The stage becomes less a trial and more a space she can claim on her own terms.
There's intent here, too: permission. She's modeling a way to keep making art without pretending the hard parts disappear. Nervousness becomes not a disqualifier, but part of the charge that makes the thing worth doing.
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Phair, Liz. (n.d.). I can't say I don't get nervous, but I really kind of enjoy performing now. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-say-i-dont-get-nervous-but-i-really-kind-84636/
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"I can't say I don't get nervous, but I really kind of enjoy performing now." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-say-i-dont-get-nervous-but-i-really-kind-84636/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






