"I can't say I have control over my emotions; I don't know my mind. I'm lost like everyone else. I'm certainly not a leader"
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The phrasing matters. “I can’t say I have control” sidesteps the macho rhetoric of mastery; it’s not a confession of weakness so much as a rejection of the expectation that an adult, especially a famous one, should be emotionally “managed” at all times. “I don’t know my mind” goes deeper than moodiness: it frames the self as shifting terrain, not a stable product. Then he widens the aperture: “I’m lost like everyone else.” That move is strategic humility, but also a subtle critique of the pedestal. He’s insisting on common citizenship in uncertainty, refusing the role of guru.
The final sentence is the real pressure point. “I’m certainly not a leader” reads as a preemptive boundary against the public’s habit of drafting actors into political or spiritual authority. In an era when celebrities are routinely asked to be spokespeople, activists, and surrogate priests, Gere’s subtext is: stop outsourcing your direction to famous strangers. The intent isn’t self-erasure; it’s a demand for a more adult relationship between audience and icon.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gere, Richard. (2026, January 17). I can't say I have control over my emotions; I don't know my mind. I'm lost like everyone else. I'm certainly not a leader. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-say-i-have-control-over-my-emotions-i-dont-65107/
Chicago Style
Gere, Richard. "I can't say I have control over my emotions; I don't know my mind. I'm lost like everyone else. I'm certainly not a leader." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-say-i-have-control-over-my-emotions-i-dont-65107/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I can't say I have control over my emotions; I don't know my mind. I'm lost like everyone else. I'm certainly not a leader." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-say-i-have-control-over-my-emotions-i-dont-65107/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.





