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Daily Inspiration Quote by Sandra Bernhard

"I can't tell you 100 percent what makes a relationship work. But I can see something good coming and I can see something bad coming"

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Bernhard’s line is a shrug that doubles as a flex: she won’t pretend to have the secret formula, but she’s not walking into love blind, either. It’s the kind of streetwise humility that plays well in a culture addicted to relationship “rules” and influencer-ready certainty. By rejecting “100 percent,” she punctures the fantasy that intimacy can be solved like a math problem. Then she pivots to something more believable - pattern recognition, the hard-earned radar built from mistakes, chemistry, and the little tells people give off when they’re about to bolt or bloom.

The subtext is veteran energy. She’s not selling romance; she’s selling discernment. “I can see something good coming” suggests openness, even optimism, but “I can see something bad coming” carries the sharper edge: boundaries, self-protection, the willingness to name red flags before they become a lifestyle. It’s not cynicism so much as refusing to be gaslit by the myth that love should feel confusing.

As an actress and comedian with a confrontational, candid public persona, Bernhard is also winking at performance itself. Relationships are theater; everyone auditions, everyone improvises. You may not control the script, but you can read the room. The intent isn’t to sound profound - it’s to sound competent. In 2026 terms, it’s anti-life-hack wisdom: no guarantees, just better instincts.

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Sandra Bernhard (born June 6, 1955) is a Actress from USA.

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