"I can't understand these chaps who go round American universities explaining how they write poems: It's like going round explaining how you sleep with your wife"
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The choice of “American universities” isn’t incidental. Larkin is needling a particular postwar cultural shift: the rise of institutionalized creative writing, professionalized authorship, and a transatlantic lecture circuit that turns poems into content and poets into branded explainers of their own mystique. His “these chaps” condescension performs what he preaches, refusing the earnestness those settings reward.
Underneath the punchline is a defensive aesthetic. Larkin believed in craftsmanship, but he distrusted self-mythologizing and the idea that art should arrive with a user manual. The subtext is: if you have to narrate your inspiration onstage, you’re already halfway to falsifying it. Like sex, writing is compromised the moment it’s performed for an audience that isn’t the intended partner - the page, the reader, the self.
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Larkin, Philip. (2026, January 16). I can't understand these chaps who go round American universities explaining how they write poems: It's like going round explaining how you sleep with your wife. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-understand-these-chaps-who-go-round-101440/
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Larkin, Philip. "I can't understand these chaps who go round American universities explaining how they write poems: It's like going round explaining how you sleep with your wife." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-understand-these-chaps-who-go-round-101440/.
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"I can't understand these chaps who go round American universities explaining how they write poems: It's like going round explaining how you sleep with your wife." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-cant-understand-these-chaps-who-go-round-101440/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.



