"I care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. I will be rich by myself, and not by borrowing"
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The second sentence tightens the screw. “Not by borrowing” isn’t only about money; it’s about borrowed selves. Montaigne, writing in a France riven by religious civil war and status anxiety, watched public certainty become a weapon and fashionable conviction become a uniform. His Essays are full of suspicion toward posturing, toward the human impulse to outsource judgment to the crowd, the court, the church, the faction. Here, independence is less a triumph than a discipline: the hard work of building a self sturdy enough to sit with its own contradictions.
What makes the line endure is its refusal to romanticize solitude. “By myself” isn’t isolation as vibe; it’s self-knowledge as an asset you earn, not inherit. Montaigne implies that social validation is a kind of credit system: useful, tempting, and quietly ruinous if you confuse it for actual capital.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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Montaigne, Michel de. (2026, January 18). I care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. I will be rich by myself, and not by borrowing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-care-not-so-much-what-i-am-to-others-as-what-i-17391/
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Montaigne, Michel de. "I care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. I will be rich by myself, and not by borrowing." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-care-not-so-much-what-i-am-to-others-as-what-i-17391/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I care not so much what I am to others as what I am to myself. I will be rich by myself, and not by borrowing." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-care-not-so-much-what-i-am-to-others-as-what-i-17391/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







