"I certainly know that this relationship could not have continued the way it did, when I was at the Pentagon and the president was obviously at the White House, without Betty"
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The sentence is built like a logistical memo, not a confession. “Could not have continued the way it did” is careful language, simultaneously admitting persistence and refusing to glamorize it. Then she drops in the deadpan geography: “I was at the Pentagon… the president was obviously at the White House.” That “obviously” lands with a grim wink. Everyone knows where presidents are supposed to be; the absurdity is that the relationship still found routes between those fortified institutions. The humor is not playful, it’s defensive: an acknowledgment that the entire situation was grotesquely implausible, yet fully real.
Naming Betty (generally understood as Betty Currie, Clinton’s secretary) reframes Lewinsky’s role from sole instigator to one node in a system. The subtext is accountability by implication: if an affair required staff coordination, then it wasn’t just two people making reckless choices; it was an environment where boundaries were negotiated, outsourced, and normalized.
Lewinsky’s specific intent is cultural correction. She’s not pleading innocence. She’s insisting on complexity: scandals aren’t sustained by desire alone, but by proximity to power, the bureaucracy around it, and the people who decide, quietly, to keep the doors open.
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| Topic | Long-Distance Relationship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lewinsky, Monica. (2026, January 17). I certainly know that this relationship could not have continued the way it did, when I was at the Pentagon and the president was obviously at the White House, without Betty. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-certainly-know-that-this-relationship-could-not-76645/
Chicago Style
Lewinsky, Monica. "I certainly know that this relationship could not have continued the way it did, when I was at the Pentagon and the president was obviously at the White House, without Betty." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-certainly-know-that-this-relationship-could-not-76645/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I certainly know that this relationship could not have continued the way it did, when I was at the Pentagon and the president was obviously at the White House, without Betty." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-certainly-know-that-this-relationship-could-not-76645/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






