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Creativity Quote by Kendrick Lamar

"I choose me, I’m sorry"

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“I choose me, I’m sorry” lands like a clean break delivered with the softest possible blunt object. Kendrick Lamar compresses an entire moral argument into five words: self-preservation as a decision, apology as collateral damage. The line works because it refuses the fantasy that choosing yourself can be made painless, or rhetorically “right.” It admits the harm without surrendering the choice.

The intent is boundary-setting, but not the Instagrammable kind. “Choose” isn’t “feel” or “need”; it’s volition, a pivot from being shaped by obligation, expectation, and guilt. Kendrick’s work has long documented the psychic tax of being publicly symbolic: spokesperson, savior, cautionary tale, prophet. In that light, “I choose me” reads as a rejection of involuntary roles - family burdens, industry extraction, community projection - that frame his life as a resource for other people’s meaning.

The subtext is what makes the apology sting. “I’m sorry” isn’t asking permission or negotiating; it’s a nod to the emotional wreckage he knows he’ll leave behind. It’s empathy without capitulation. The juxtaposition also inoculates him against the easy villain edit: he’s not claiming purity, just necessity.

Culturally, the line hits in an era where “self-care” is both survival tactic and consumer slogan. Kendrick drains it of lifestyle gloss and puts the cost back in. This is selfhood not as luxury, but as an exit wound.

Quote Details

TopicSelf-Love
SourceSong: "Mother I Sober" (2022), Mr. Morale & the Big Steppers
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lamar, Kendrick. (2026, February 1). I choose me, I’m sorry. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-choose-me-im-sorry-184845/

Chicago Style
Lamar, Kendrick. "I choose me, I’m sorry." FixQuotes. February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-choose-me-im-sorry-184845/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I choose me, I’m sorry." FixQuotes, 1 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-choose-me-im-sorry-184845/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Kendrick Lamar

Kendrick Lamar (born June 17, 1987) is a Musician from USA.

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