"I come from a family of losers, and I've rejected my family as something I don't want to be like"
About this Quote
The second clause is colder, almost administrative: “I’ve rejected my family” reads like a contract clause, not a diary confession. That phrasing reveals the subtext: rejecting people can be easier to narrate than rejecting the parts of yourself you recognize in them. It’s a statement of intent (I will not be this) wrapped around a fear (what if I already am?). That tension is a classic engine for pop stardom: reinvention that never fully stops, because the past keeps reasserting itself.
Context matters because Sting’s persona has long balanced working-class roots with polished cosmopolitanism, intellect, and control. Coming up from Newcastle into the late-70s music economy, ambition wasn’t just vanity; it was survival and self-authorship. The quote also carries the cost: upward mobility framed as rupture. It’s not a triumphant origin story so much as a confession that the ladder was climbed by stepping away from the people who taught you how to stand.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sting. (2026, January 16). I come from a family of losers, and I've rejected my family as something I don't want to be like. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-come-from-a-family-of-losers-and-ive-rejected-86278/
Chicago Style
Sting. "I come from a family of losers, and I've rejected my family as something I don't want to be like." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-come-from-a-family-of-losers-and-ive-rejected-86278/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I come from a family of losers, and I've rejected my family as something I don't want to be like." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-come-from-a-family-of-losers-and-ive-rejected-86278/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.










