"I consider myself a lesbian, but I'm a bisexual lesbian"
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A phrase like "bisexual lesbian" is meant to short-circuit the neat little filing cabinet people want sexuality to fit into. Betty Dodson isn’t stumbling into a contradiction; she’s picking one up and using it as a tool. Coming out of late-20th-century feminist sex education, where labels often doubled as political affiliations, Dodson’s wording pushes back on the idea that desire has to be legible to count.
The intent is boundary-testing, but also boundary-keeping. Calling herself a lesbian signals community, history, and a specific set of cultural battles: women-centered spaces, feminist organizing, the right to name female pleasure without apology. Adding "bisexual" refuses the implicit purity test that sometimes policed those spaces - the expectation that lesbian identity requires an exclusive pattern of attraction, past and present. She’s claiming the lesbian world as home while insisting her erotic reality isn’t up for disciplinary review.
The subtext is a critique of how identity politics can harden into doctrine. Dodson taught people to talk plainly about sex, to demystify it, to make it less performative and more honest. This line does that in miniature: it’s deliberately unruly, a reminder that labels are supposed to serve people, not the other way around. In a culture that rewards clear categories for everything from dating apps to movement branding, "bisexual lesbian" reads like a refusal to be optimized. It’s not confusion; it’s sovereignty.
The intent is boundary-testing, but also boundary-keeping. Calling herself a lesbian signals community, history, and a specific set of cultural battles: women-centered spaces, feminist organizing, the right to name female pleasure without apology. Adding "bisexual" refuses the implicit purity test that sometimes policed those spaces - the expectation that lesbian identity requires an exclusive pattern of attraction, past and present. She’s claiming the lesbian world as home while insisting her erotic reality isn’t up for disciplinary review.
The subtext is a critique of how identity politics can harden into doctrine. Dodson taught people to talk plainly about sex, to demystify it, to make it less performative and more honest. This line does that in miniature: it’s deliberately unruly, a reminder that labels are supposed to serve people, not the other way around. In a culture that rewards clear categories for everything from dating apps to movement branding, "bisexual lesbian" reads like a refusal to be optimized. It’s not confusion; it’s sovereignty.
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| Topic | Equality |
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