"I consider myself much better adjusted than Gabriel"
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It lands like a sly jab wrapped in self-portraiture: a narrator (or speaker) measuring their own sanity against someone named Gabriel, and doing it with the breezy confidence of a person who knows “better adjusted” is a loaded phrase. Maupin’s work, especially Tales of the City, thrives on that friction between polished social language and the messier truth underneath. “Adjusted” isn’t neutral; it’s the vocabulary of therapists, parents, and polite society, the word people use when they want to turn complicated lives into a pass/fail mental-health report.
The specific intent is comic triangulation. By invoking “Gabriel” without explanation, Maupin invites the reader to lean in, to sense an ongoing soap-opera ecosystem where one character’s dysfunction has become the community’s shared reference point. It’s a short line that implies a long history: someone has been difficult, dramatic, needy, possibly self-destructive. The speaker’s comparison feels less like compassion than a little victory lap.
The subtext, though, is that “adjustment” is often just conformity with better lighting. Maupin, writing as a gay novelist who came of age when “well-adjusted” was code for “straight-acting” and “don’t make trouble,” knows how society rewards the appearance of stability. The joke carries a faint defensive edge: I’m fine, really; I’m not like that. It works because it exposes how we use other people’s chaos as a mirror to reassure ourselves, even in communities built on empathy and chosen family.
The specific intent is comic triangulation. By invoking “Gabriel” without explanation, Maupin invites the reader to lean in, to sense an ongoing soap-opera ecosystem where one character’s dysfunction has become the community’s shared reference point. It’s a short line that implies a long history: someone has been difficult, dramatic, needy, possibly self-destructive. The speaker’s comparison feels less like compassion than a little victory lap.
The subtext, though, is that “adjustment” is often just conformity with better lighting. Maupin, writing as a gay novelist who came of age when “well-adjusted” was code for “straight-acting” and “don’t make trouble,” knows how society rewards the appearance of stability. The joke carries a faint defensive edge: I’m fine, really; I’m not like that. It works because it exposes how we use other people’s chaos as a mirror to reassure ourselves, even in communities built on empathy and chosen family.
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