"I considered Nat King Cole to be a friend and, in many ways, a mentor. He always had words of profound advice"
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The phrase “in many ways” does telling work. It suggests mentorship that wasn’t formal, not a single career tip but a sustained model: how to hold your dignity when you’re being underestimated, how to be impeccable without becoming a prop, how to remain gracious without being pliable. Carroll, who broke barriers in television and film while being relentlessly scrutinized for her beauty, class, and “acceptability,” is also quietly telling you she learned from someone who had already absorbed the blows.
“He always had words of profound advice” is deliberately non-specific, which makes it more powerful. She isn’t quoting a maxim; she’s honoring a consistent practice of care. The subtext is community as infrastructure: behind every “first” or “breakthrough” is often a private network of elders offering counsel that the spotlight never credits.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carroll, Diahann. (2026, January 17). I considered Nat King Cole to be a friend and, in many ways, a mentor. He always had words of profound advice. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-considered-nat-king-cole-to-be-a-friend-and-in-47284/
Chicago Style
Carroll, Diahann. "I considered Nat King Cole to be a friend and, in many ways, a mentor. He always had words of profound advice." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-considered-nat-king-cole-to-be-a-friend-and-in-47284/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I considered Nat King Cole to be a friend and, in many ways, a mentor. He always had words of profound advice." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-considered-nat-king-cole-to-be-a-friend-and-in-47284/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.







