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"I define my sexuality in terms of the people that I love"

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It is both a refusal and a reclamation: George Michael declines to let desire be filed into a neat category, while insisting that intimacy is real, chosen, and personal. The line works because it sounds almost disarmingly simple, like something you might say to stop a nosy question at a party. But it lands with the heft of a public boundary. He’s not just describing himself; he’s repositioning the entire conversation away from labels that tabloids, executives, and even fans treated as public property.

The phrasing is strategic. “Define” acknowledges the cultural demand for a fixed identity, then reroutes it to “the people that I love,” swapping abstract taxonomy for lived relationships. It’s emotionally legible without being confessional in the way celebrity culture expects: no lurid details, no apology, no headline-ready provocation. That restraint is the point. Love becomes the metric, which reads as humane and grown-up, but also quietly radical in an era when queer lives were often framed through scandal, risk, or spectacle.

Context sharpens the intent. Michael’s career unfolded during the AIDS crisis and a British media ecosystem hungry to “out” and punish. After his 1998 arrest and forced outing, his public image became a battleground between shame and self-determination. This line refuses shame by refusing the terms of interrogation. It offers fans a way to understand him that’s intimate but not invasive: you don’t get to own the category; you can only witness the love.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Michael, George. (2026, January 15). I define my sexuality in terms of the people that I love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-define-my-sexuality-in-terms-of-the-people-that-59221/

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Michael, George. "I define my sexuality in terms of the people that I love." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-define-my-sexuality-in-terms-of-the-people-that-59221/.

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"I define my sexuality in terms of the people that I love." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-define-my-sexuality-in-terms-of-the-people-that-59221/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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George Michael (June 25, 1963 - December 25, 2016) was a Musician from United Kingdom.

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