"I deserve all the love you can spare me. And I want a lot more than I deserve"
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Then Hammett flips the table. “And I want a lot more than I deserve” doesn’t retract the first claim; it exposes it. The speaker admits desire has never been a courtroom argument. By confessing the mismatch between merit and appetite, the line punctures the moral economy that tells us affection is earned, proportionate, and properly budgeted. It’s a confession, but also a seduction tactic: radical honesty as leverage. If I’m admitting I’m unreasonable, you can’t accuse me of pretending otherwise.
The subtext carries Hammett’s signature cynicism about virtue. In his fiction, people negotiate with everything, including their own conscience. Here the negotiation is intimate: a bargain with the beloved that tries to smuggle in an infinite demand under the cover of self-awareness. The sentence is a two-step that turns vulnerability into control, a romantic bid that knows it’s a bid. It works because it lets the speaker be both guilty and shameless, asking for more while preemptively disarming the objection.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hammett, Dashiell. (2026, January 16). I deserve all the love you can spare me. And I want a lot more than I deserve. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-deserve-all-the-love-you-can-spare-me-and-i-110416/
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Hammett, Dashiell. "I deserve all the love you can spare me. And I want a lot more than I deserve." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-deserve-all-the-love-you-can-spare-me-and-i-110416/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I deserve all the love you can spare me. And I want a lot more than I deserve." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-deserve-all-the-love-you-can-spare-me-and-i-110416/. Accessed 23 Feb. 2026.









