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Love Quote by Dashiell Hammett

"I deserve all the love you can spare me. And I want a lot more than I deserve"

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A hard-boiled writer slipping on a velvet glove: Hammett’s line performs neediness with a grin sharp enough to cut the sentimentality. “I deserve all the love you can spare me” starts as a mock-ethical claim, the kind of plea you dress up in fairness so it sounds reasonable. The verb “spare” is key: love is framed like loose change, something rationed after real obligations are met. It’s a small con, a way to make craving sound modest.

Then Hammett flips the table. “And I want a lot more than I deserve” doesn’t retract the first claim; it exposes it. The speaker admits desire has never been a courtroom argument. By confessing the mismatch between merit and appetite, the line punctures the moral economy that tells us affection is earned, proportionate, and properly budgeted. It’s a confession, but also a seduction tactic: radical honesty as leverage. If I’m admitting I’m unreasonable, you can’t accuse me of pretending otherwise.

The subtext carries Hammett’s signature cynicism about virtue. In his fiction, people negotiate with everything, including their own conscience. Here the negotiation is intimate: a bargain with the beloved that tries to smuggle in an infinite demand under the cover of self-awareness. The sentence is a two-step that turns vulnerability into control, a romantic bid that knows it’s a bid. It works because it lets the speaker be both guilty and shameless, asking for more while preemptively disarming the objection.

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Hammett, Dashiell. (2026, January 16). I deserve all the love you can spare me. And I want a lot more than I deserve. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-deserve-all-the-love-you-can-spare-me-and-i-110416/

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Hammett, Dashiell. "I deserve all the love you can spare me. And I want a lot more than I deserve." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-deserve-all-the-love-you-can-spare-me-and-i-110416/.

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"I deserve all the love you can spare me. And I want a lot more than I deserve." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-deserve-all-the-love-you-can-spare-me-and-i-110416/. Accessed 23 Feb. 2026.

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Dashiell Hammett (May 27, 1894 - January 10, 1961) was a Author from USA.

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