"I did a women's movie, and I'm not a woman. I did a gay movie, and I'm not gay. I learned as I went along"
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The subtext is also defensive, because it’s answering a recurring accusation: that a straight Taiwanese man shouldn’t be telling British women’s stories or a gay American love story. Lee’s move is to reframe authorship as apprenticeship. “I learned as I went along” is the key phrase, and it’s doing double duty. It signals humility (I’m not claiming ownership), while asserting authority (I did it anyway, and it worked). That tension is what makes the line effective: it’s both apology and proof.
Context matters here because these films weren’t small, private experiments; they were culture-shaping releases that invited scrutiny about authenticity, representation, and the director’s gaze. Lee isn’t dismissing those concerns so much as insisting that the ethical response isn’t silence or self-censorship. It’s the harder option: doing the work of translation across difference, and letting the results be judged on whether they ring true.
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Lee, Ang. (2026, January 16). I did a women's movie, and I'm not a woman. I did a gay movie, and I'm not gay. I learned as I went along. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-a-womens-movie-and-im-not-a-woman-i-did-a-124424/
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Lee, Ang. "I did a women's movie, and I'm not a woman. I did a gay movie, and I'm not gay. I learned as I went along." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-a-womens-movie-and-im-not-a-woman-i-did-a-124424/.
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"I did a women's movie, and I'm not a woman. I did a gay movie, and I'm not gay. I learned as I went along." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-a-womens-movie-and-im-not-a-woman-i-did-a-124424/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





