"I did as much research as I could and I took ownership of this illness, because if you don't take care of your body, where are you going to live?"
About this Quote
The phrase “took ownership” is doing two jobs at once. On the surface, it’s self-management: tracking symptoms, asking better questions, showing up for treatments. Underneath, it’s a rejection of passivity and of the cultural expectation that sick people should be either stoic saints or tragic victims. Ownership is her way of keeping agency when her body is unreliable. It also lightly indicts a culture that hands you a diagnosis and expects you to cope quietly.
Then she snaps it into a clean, almost comic rhetorical question: “where are you going to live?” The wit is practical, not cute. She collapses the mind/body divide into a housing metaphor that anyone can feel. Your body isn’t a vehicle or a temple; it’s your only address. That framing makes “self-care” less about indulgence and more about basic tenancy: maintenance isn’t optional when the property is you. In an era that sells wellness as lifestyle branding, Duffy recasts it as survival economics.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Care |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Duffy, Karen. (2026, January 16). I did as much research as I could and I took ownership of this illness, because if you don't take care of your body, where are you going to live? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-as-much-research-as-i-could-and-i-took-93152/
Chicago Style
Duffy, Karen. "I did as much research as I could and I took ownership of this illness, because if you don't take care of your body, where are you going to live?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-as-much-research-as-i-could-and-i-took-93152/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I did as much research as I could and I took ownership of this illness, because if you don't take care of your body, where are you going to live?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-as-much-research-as-i-could-and-i-took-93152/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.




