"I did not like leaving them when they were little or big. You have to have priorities regarding what you will allow to take you away from your kid"
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The second sentence shifts from feeling to policy. “You have to have priorities” reads like advice, but it’s also a boundary-setting mantra aimed at an industry built on displacement: location shoots, press tours, nights that run late because “opportunity” is always framed as urgent. Hudson’s choice of “allow” matters. It reframes absence as not merely the cost of ambition, but a decision you either consent to or refuse. That subtle agency is the subtext: no one can fully outsource the moral math.
Culturally, it lands in a moment when celebrity motherhood is both content and commodity, constantly audited online. Hudson’s candor functions as a quiet rebuttal to the impossible standard of total presence, while still insisting on accountability. She’s not begging for absolution; she’s describing the trade-offs and insisting they should be named, not romanticized.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hudson, Kate. (2026, January 15). I did not like leaving them when they were little or big. You have to have priorities regarding what you will allow to take you away from your kid. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-not-like-leaving-them-when-they-were-little-157335/
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Hudson, Kate. "I did not like leaving them when they were little or big. You have to have priorities regarding what you will allow to take you away from your kid." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-not-like-leaving-them-when-they-were-little-157335/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I did not like leaving them when they were little or big. You have to have priorities regarding what you will allow to take you away from your kid." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-not-like-leaving-them-when-they-were-little-157335/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





