"I did not stop dancing; I did take two years off to get myself together"
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Then she pivots: “I did take two years off to get myself together.” The phrasing is disarmingly plain, almost domestic. Not “reinvent,” not “rebrand,” not “heal” in the performative, social-media sense. “Get myself together” suggests the unglamorous maintenance work that creativity demands but culture rarely rewards: therapy, rest, boundaries, sobriety, motherhood, grief, recalibration - whatever the private inventory was. The syntax matters. She pairs the denial with the admission, balancing pride and vulnerability. It’s not defensive; it’s managerial, like someone explaining a sensible decision to people who think constant output is proof of legitimacy.
In a music industry trained to treat young female artists as products with expiration dates, the subtext is even sharper: stepping away isn’t failure, it’s agency. Carlton’s intent is to normalize pause without surrendering identity, to argue that continuity can look like quiet, and that an artist’s rhythm isn’t obligated to match the marketplace’s beat.
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| Topic | Reinvention |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carlton, Vanessa. (2026, January 15). I did not stop dancing; I did take two years off to get myself together. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-not-stop-dancing-i-did-take-two-years-off-148191/
Chicago Style
Carlton, Vanessa. "I did not stop dancing; I did take two years off to get myself together." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-not-stop-dancing-i-did-take-two-years-off-148191/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I did not stop dancing; I did take two years off to get myself together." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-did-not-stop-dancing-i-did-take-two-years-off-148191/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



