"I didn't care at all about losing, but I just didn't want Emerson to feel bad. You know, I didn't win, but Felicity won, and when you come to the set next time, you can give her a big congratulations"
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Notice how she uses names like a director uses lighting. “Emerson” personalizes the other nominee as a colleague with a real inner life, not a headline. Then she reframes the outcome: “I didn’t win, but Felicity won.” That’s not just generosity; it’s a deliberate redistribution of credit to the show’s ecosystem. In a cast-driven series, the win is presented as communal, proof that the project is thriving even if the trophy didn’t land in her hands.
The final gesture - instructing the listener to “give her a big congratulations” - turns the audience into a participant in good sportsmanship. It’s a subtle PR judo move: she’s not pleading for harmony, she’s scripting it. In an industry that feeds on rival narratives between women, Hatcher’s tone is strategically warm: empathy as boundary-setting, graciousness as control.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hatcher, Teri. (2026, February 16). I didn't care at all about losing, but I just didn't want Emerson to feel bad. You know, I didn't win, but Felicity won, and when you come to the set next time, you can give her a big congratulations. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-care-at-all-about-losing-but-i-just-didnt-164597/
Chicago Style
Hatcher, Teri. "I didn't care at all about losing, but I just didn't want Emerson to feel bad. You know, I didn't win, but Felicity won, and when you come to the set next time, you can give her a big congratulations." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-care-at-all-about-losing-but-i-just-didnt-164597/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I didn't care at all about losing, but I just didn't want Emerson to feel bad. You know, I didn't win, but Felicity won, and when you come to the set next time, you can give her a big congratulations." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-care-at-all-about-losing-but-i-just-didnt-164597/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.






