"I didn't expect to win the Oscar. You grow up watching the Oscars on TV and you think it happens to fancy people. It was really surreal"
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The subtext is a careful negotiation with celebrity culture. Connelly was already famous long before winning Best Supporting Actress for A Beautiful Mind (2002). Yet she’s trying to restore the emotional scale that fame flattens: even for an established actor, the Oscar is still weirdly unreal. “Surreal” becomes a socially acceptable way to admit being overwhelmed, grateful, maybe even unsteady, without tipping into melodrama or ego.
Context matters: the early 2000s were peak awards-season pageantry, and the Oscars functioned as Hollywood’s self-coronation. Her language gently resists that. She doesn’t invoke destiny, craft, or meritocracy; she invokes TV, childhood, and class-coded distance. It’s a modest line that quietly critiques how the industry sells glamour as a gated community - then asks the winners to pretend the gates were never there.
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"I didn't expect to win the Oscar. You grow up watching the Oscars on TV and you think it happens to fancy people. It was really surreal." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-expect-to-win-the-oscar-you-grow-up-65847/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.





