"I didn't fully realize it at the time, but the goal of my life was profoundly molded by this experience - to help produce, in the next generation, more Mother Teresas and less Hitlers"
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The opening confession, “I didn’t fully realize it at the time,” signals a common post-trauma narrative: meaning arrives retroactively. That line quietly asserts credibility. She’s not presenting a tidy origin story; she’s acknowledging the messy lag between experience and insight, a therapist’s way of sounding honest without sounding uncertain.
Subtextually, the quote is also a rebuke to therapeutic modesty. Kubler-Ross frames psychology not as symptom management but as moral formation, almost a secular catechism aimed at the “next generation.” That generational emphasis matters: it shifts responsibility from individual pathology to environments that incubate cruelty or compassion - families, institutions, classrooms, hospitals.
There’s also a calculated rhetorical shortcut here. By invoking two globally recognized icons, she bypasses clinical terminology and speaks in cultural archetypes. It’s persuasive because it’s legible: you don’t need her case notes to understand the mission. You just have to accept her premise that humanity can be cultivated - and that the cost of failing to do so is measurable in bodies.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kubler-Ross, Elisabeth. (2026, January 18). I didn't fully realize it at the time, but the goal of my life was profoundly molded by this experience - to help produce, in the next generation, more Mother Teresas and less Hitlers. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-fully-realize-it-at-the-time-but-the-goal-2964/
Chicago Style
Kubler-Ross, Elisabeth. "I didn't fully realize it at the time, but the goal of my life was profoundly molded by this experience - to help produce, in the next generation, more Mother Teresas and less Hitlers." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-fully-realize-it-at-the-time-but-the-goal-2964/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I didn't fully realize it at the time, but the goal of my life was profoundly molded by this experience - to help produce, in the next generation, more Mother Teresas and less Hitlers." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-fully-realize-it-at-the-time-but-the-goal-2964/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




