"I didn't mind being unpopular at school, because everyone else was a heathen"
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The intent isn’t to confess awkwardness; it’s to expose how institutions teach kids to narrate their loneliness. Unpopularity becomes bearable when you can recode it as chosenness. The subtext is a portrait of identity forged under pressure: if you can’t win the popularity contest, you win a different contest entirely, one judged by purity, conviction, and distance from the crowd. It’s a survival strategy that also traps you, because it requires dehumanizing peers to keep your own pain from showing.
Context matters: Winterson’s work often circles evangelical certainty, working-class constraint, and the cost of being queer in spaces where deviation reads as sin. That background gives “heathen” its double charge. It’s the language that once policed her, now wielded with dry wit to reveal its absurdity. The line works because it’s self-aware: you can hear the younger self believing it, and the older writer letting the logic indict itself. It’s a joke, but it’s also an origin story for a novelist: the outsider who learns early that narrative can flip the power dynamic.
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Winterson, Jeanette. (2026, January 17). I didn't mind being unpopular at school, because everyone else was a heathen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-mind-being-unpopular-at-school-because-69166/
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Winterson, Jeanette. "I didn't mind being unpopular at school, because everyone else was a heathen." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-mind-being-unpopular-at-school-because-69166/.
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"I didn't mind being unpopular at school, because everyone else was a heathen." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-mind-being-unpopular-at-school-because-69166/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




