"I didn't really like the aloneness of doing stand-up"
About this Quote
As an actor, Buscemi is practically synonymous with characters who look slightly out of place yet remain intensely readable. That sensibility depends on responsiveness: the small shifts you get from a scene partner, the collaborative calibration with a director, the shared rhythm that turns awkwardness into meaning. Stand-up, by contrast, is a monologue performed under the illusion of dialogue. The audience answers, but they don't hold you; they judge you. "Aloneness" here isn't just being physically solo onstage. It's the emotional isolation of having to generate momentum without anyone to pass the ball back.
Context matters, too: Buscemi came up in a New York ecosystem where performance is often communal by necessity - ensembles, downtown theater, improv-adjacent circles, crews that become families. His career later thrived in film and TV worlds built on collaboration, even when the characters are lonely. The quiet intent of the quote is permission-giving: you can crave the room, the team, the interplay - and that doesn't make you less brave. It makes you honest about how art actually gets made.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Buscemi, Steve. (2026, January 16). I didn't really like the aloneness of doing stand-up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-really-like-the-aloneness-of-doing-95026/
Chicago Style
Buscemi, Steve. "I didn't really like the aloneness of doing stand-up." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-really-like-the-aloneness-of-doing-95026/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I didn't really like the aloneness of doing stand-up." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-really-like-the-aloneness-of-doing-95026/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



