"I didn't want to start relying on what someone else thought was right. It was easier to go away all together"
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"It was easier" lands like a small scandal. Walking away from fame is supposed to be tragic, a cautionary tale, a failure to cope. Novak flips the script: the difficult option isn't leaving, it's staying and letting your sense of self be negotiated daily by strangers with power. The line also carries the subtext of gendered control. For actresses of her era, "right" often meant obedient, grateful, available, and perfectly curated - a moral code disguised as career advice. Refusing that isn't just personal preference; it's resistance to a system that profits from compliance.
"Go away all together" (with its slightly off-kilter phrasing) feels less like a press-release "retirement" than an intentional disappearance, a hard boundary rather than a sabbatical. It's not a tantrum. It's an exit strategy. Novak isn't romanticizing isolation; she's naming autonomy as something you sometimes have to protect with distance. In an economy built on access to you, vanishing becomes the most legible form of control.
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| Topic | Moving On |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Novak, Kim. (2026, January 16). I didn't want to start relying on what someone else thought was right. It was easier to go away all together. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-want-to-start-relying-on-what-someone-113871/
Chicago Style
Novak, Kim. "I didn't want to start relying on what someone else thought was right. It was easier to go away all together." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-want-to-start-relying-on-what-someone-113871/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I didn't want to start relying on what someone else thought was right. It was easier to go away all together." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-want-to-start-relying-on-what-someone-113871/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









