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Daily Inspiration Quote by Jerzy Kosinski

"I do like to live in other people's homes. I enjoy being a guest. I am an inexpensive guest. When one lives in another's home he can enter into the psychic kingdom of that person"

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There’s a sly opportunism baked into Kosinski’s hospitality manifesto: the guest as a kind of sanctioned parasite, trading rent for attention. “I am an inexpensive guest” reads like a throwaway brag, but it’s doing sharper work. It frames intimacy as a bargain and positions the speaker as someone who knows how to make himself palatable - low-maintenance, charming, easy to host - so he can stay close to the real prize: access.

That prize is “the psychic kingdom,” a phrase that turns a living room into a sovereign territory. Kosinski isn’t romanticizing domestic life; he’s treating it as an interior architecture that reveals the owner’s mind. The home becomes a text to be read: what’s displayed, what’s hidden, how space is guarded, what counts as comfort versus control. As a novelist, he’s declaring a method. Don’t interview people; inhabit them. Or at least inhabit their habitats.

The subtext is also about power. Guests are supposedly powerless - dependent, grateful, temporary. Kosinski flips that: the guest enjoys a unique surveillance position, free to observe without being responsible for maintaining the fiction of the household. He can leave. That exit ramp makes him dangerous, and the line’s coolness acknowledges it.

Context matters because Kosinski’s public persona and work often orbit performance, identity, and manipulation: the self as something constructed to survive, seduce, or extract information. This quote turns that worldview domestic. It’s not just about being hosted; it’s about using the social contract of hosting to slip past people’s defenses and into their private mythology.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kosinski, Jerzy. (2026, January 17). I do like to live in other people's homes. I enjoy being a guest. I am an inexpensive guest. When one lives in another's home he can enter into the psychic kingdom of that person. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-like-to-live-in-other-peoples-homes-i-enjoy-51568/

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Kosinski, Jerzy. "I do like to live in other people's homes. I enjoy being a guest. I am an inexpensive guest. When one lives in another's home he can enter into the psychic kingdom of that person." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-like-to-live-in-other-peoples-homes-i-enjoy-51568/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I do like to live in other people's homes. I enjoy being a guest. I am an inexpensive guest. When one lives in another's home he can enter into the psychic kingdom of that person." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-like-to-live-in-other-peoples-homes-i-enjoy-51568/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Jerzy Kosinski (June 18, 1933 - May 3, 1991) was a Novelist from Poland.

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