"I do not hold with those who think it is all right to do whatever you want so long as it doesn't hurt anyone. Who's to be the judge of that?"
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Young’s line takes a wrecking ball to the most comforting slogan in modern moral life: “As long as it doesn’t hurt anyone.” On its face, it’s a plea for responsibility. Underneath, it’s a challenge to the smug confidence baked into that phrase - the idea that harm is obvious, measurable, and privately adjudicated. Her rhetorical pivot, “Who’s to be the judge of that?”, isn’t curiosity; it’s a cross-examination. It forces the listener to admit that “doesn’t hurt anyone” is often shorthand for “I don’t see the harm” or “I’ve decided the harm doesn’t count.”
Coming from a classic Hollywood actress, the subtext lands with extra charge. Young’s career unfolded inside an industry built on carefully managed images and quietly managed damage: studio control, public morality clauses, and a culture where private choices were never purely private because they were monetized, scandalized, and used as leverage. In that world, “hurting no one” is rarely clean. Harm can be delayed (to a future self), displaced (onto invisible workers, families, communities), or denied (because the cost is social rather than physical).
Young also speaks from a mid-century Catholic-inflected moral sensibility, where the self isn’t the only stakeholder in a decision. The line doesn’t just argue for restraint; it argues against moral outsourcing to personal desire. It’s a reminder that freedom without an agreed-upon referee quickly becomes freedom for whoever has the loudest narrative - and the least accountability.
Coming from a classic Hollywood actress, the subtext lands with extra charge. Young’s career unfolded inside an industry built on carefully managed images and quietly managed damage: studio control, public morality clauses, and a culture where private choices were never purely private because they were monetized, scandalized, and used as leverage. In that world, “hurting no one” is rarely clean. Harm can be delayed (to a future self), displaced (onto invisible workers, families, communities), or denied (because the cost is social rather than physical).
Young also speaks from a mid-century Catholic-inflected moral sensibility, where the self isn’t the only stakeholder in a decision. The line doesn’t just argue for restraint; it argues against moral outsourcing to personal desire. It’s a reminder that freedom without an agreed-upon referee quickly becomes freedom for whoever has the loudest narrative - and the least accountability.
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