"I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves"
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The subtext is sharper than the surface politeness. She’s telling male readers: your panic is a confession. If your first thought is that women’s power means your subordination, you’ve revealed that you understand power mainly as dominance, not as self-determination. At the same time, she’s telling women: freedom isn’t permission to imitate the worst habits of patriarchy; it’s the right to author your own life.
Context matters because “power” here isn’t metaphorical. In late 18th- and early 19th-century Britain, women’s legal personhood was constricted by coverture, their education rationed, their economic choices narrowed to dependency dressed up as virtue. The sentence pushes against a culture that romanticized female fragility while enforcing it. Its intent is reformist but not meek: it’s an argument designed to be unassailable in public while quietly detonating the logic of male entitlement.
Quote Details
| Topic | Equality |
|---|---|
| Source | Mary Wollstonecraft — A Vindication of the Rights of Woman (1792). Contains the line commonly rendered "I do not wish them to have power over men; but over themselves." |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shelley, Mary Wollstonecraft. (n.d.). I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-not-wish-women-to-have-power-over-men-but-126428/
Chicago Style
Shelley, Mary Wollstonecraft. "I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-not-wish-women-to-have-power-over-men-but-126428/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-not-wish-women-to-have-power-over-men-but-126428/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




