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Life & Wisdom Quote by Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley

"I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves"

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It’s a line that preempts its own misreading. Wollstonecraft Shelley frames women’s emancipation not as a gendered coup but as a moral correction: the point isn’t to flip the hierarchy, it’s to abolish the premise that anyone should be governed as a class. The brilliance is in the tactical humility of the phrasing. “Power over men” is offered as a decoy fear - the nightmare scenario anxiously invoked whenever women demand rights - and then dismissed as beside the point. What’s left is “over themselves,” a compact definition of autonomy that dodges the era’s caricature of the “domineering” woman.

The subtext is sharper than the surface politeness. She’s telling male readers: your panic is a confession. If your first thought is that women’s power means your subordination, you’ve revealed that you understand power mainly as dominance, not as self-determination. At the same time, she’s telling women: freedom isn’t permission to imitate the worst habits of patriarchy; it’s the right to author your own life.

Context matters because “power” here isn’t metaphorical. In late 18th- and early 19th-century Britain, women’s legal personhood was constricted by coverture, their education rationed, their economic choices narrowed to dependency dressed up as virtue. The sentence pushes against a culture that romanticized female fragility while enforcing it. Its intent is reformist but not meek: it’s an argument designed to be unassailable in public while quietly detonating the logic of male entitlement.

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TopicEquality
SourceMary Wollstonecraft — A Vindication of the Rights of Woman (1792). Contains the line commonly rendered "I do not wish them to have power over men; but over themselves."
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Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley (August 30, 1797 - February 1, 1851) was a Author from England.

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