"I do still get the odd fan letter about The Good Life, clearly written by somebody aged 18, who says: Will you send a photograph? And I think: Maybe it's kinder not to. I'm deeply into my 50s now"
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The fan letter from “somebody aged 18” is doing a lot of work: it signals how pop culture recycles desire across generations, and how The Good Life (a show soaked in cozy nostalgia) can function like a portal. The subtext is that the fan isn’t really asking for Felicity Kendal-the-human so much as Felicity Kendal-the-memory, a pin-up made of reruns and secondhand longing. Her “Maybe it’s kinder not to” gently mocks that transaction. Kindness here is boundary-setting dressed as consideration, a soft way of saying: you don’t actually want the real evidence of time passing.
There’s also a sly critique of the industry’s bargain with actresses: remain visually legible to a past role, or risk becoming “disappointing” simply by continuing to exist. By naming her “50s” bluntly, she refuses the usual euphemisms and PR varnish. It’s a small act of control over the narrative of her own face, delivered with warmth but edged with the reality that fame can freeze you, while life doesn’t.
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| Topic | Aging |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kendal, Felicity. (2026, January 17). I do still get the odd fan letter about The Good Life, clearly written by somebody aged 18, who says: Will you send a photograph? And I think: Maybe it's kinder not to. I'm deeply into my 50s now. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-still-get-the-odd-fan-letter-about-the-good-53055/
Chicago Style
Kendal, Felicity. "I do still get the odd fan letter about The Good Life, clearly written by somebody aged 18, who says: Will you send a photograph? And I think: Maybe it's kinder not to. I'm deeply into my 50s now." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-still-get-the-odd-fan-letter-about-the-good-53055/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I do still get the odd fan letter about The Good Life, clearly written by somebody aged 18, who says: Will you send a photograph? And I think: Maybe it's kinder not to. I'm deeply into my 50s now." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-still-get-the-odd-fan-letter-about-the-good-53055/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.





