"I do talk less now because the sound of my voice saying over and over the things I said years ago embarrasses and depresses me. Why do I say the same things over and over?"
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The intent feels less like confession than self-defense. “I do talk less now” reads as a boundary, a refusal to keep feeding the machine that asks for the same anecdotes, the same opinions, the same “tell us what it was like” nostalgia. The embarrassment isn’t just vanity; it’s the shame of becoming predictable to yourself. Depression enters because repetition hints at stasis, at a life reduced to a handful of set pieces polished by interviews and talk-show circuits.
The subtext is a quiet protest against the culture that rewards coherence over growth. We like our public figures legible, consistent, quotable; we punish drift. O’Connor’s question - “Why do I say the same things over and over?” - lands as both self-interrogation and indictment: maybe he repeats because the audience demands it, because memory calcifies under attention, because the industry turns humans into catchphrases. It’s the rare celebrity lament that doesn’t ask for sympathy so much as permission to change without having to narrate the change.
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| Topic | Aging |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
O'Connor, Carroll. (n.d.). I do talk less now because the sound of my voice saying over and over the things I said years ago embarrasses and depresses me. Why do I say the same things over and over? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-talk-less-now-because-the-sound-of-my-voice-150275/
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O'Connor, Carroll. "I do talk less now because the sound of my voice saying over and over the things I said years ago embarrasses and depresses me. Why do I say the same things over and over?" FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-talk-less-now-because-the-sound-of-my-voice-150275/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I do talk less now because the sound of my voice saying over and over the things I said years ago embarrasses and depresses me. Why do I say the same things over and over?" FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-do-talk-less-now-because-the-sound-of-my-voice-150275/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.




