"I don't blame my own parents for the way I grew up, as quite often there is little choice in these issues"
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The phrasing does a lot of work. “The way I grew up” stays deliberately broad, suggesting hardship or oddness without turning it into spectacle. Then comes the hinge: “quite often there is little choice in these issues.” It’s an unglamorous sentence, almost bureaucratic, and that’s the point. Garrett shifts the frame from personal drama to structural constraint: parents aren’t always authors; they’re frequently participants in economic pressure, social expectations, mental health, geography, the limits of what they were taught. You can hear the musician who became an advocate and politician-in-waiting, translating emotion into systems thinking.
Subtextually, it’s also an act of self-definition. Not blaming your parents doesn’t mean sanitizing the past; it means refusing to outsource your present. Garrett stakes out adulthood as accountability without cruelty, empathy without amnesia. It’s a statement that protects his parents, but also protects him: if “little choice” shaped them, he can acknowledge damage without getting trapped in resentment as a lifestyle.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Garrett, Peter. (2026, January 16). I don't blame my own parents for the way I grew up, as quite often there is little choice in these issues. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-blame-my-own-parents-for-the-way-i-grew-up-101526/
Chicago Style
Garrett, Peter. "I don't blame my own parents for the way I grew up, as quite often there is little choice in these issues." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-blame-my-own-parents-for-the-way-i-grew-up-101526/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't blame my own parents for the way I grew up, as quite often there is little choice in these issues." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-blame-my-own-parents-for-the-way-i-grew-up-101526/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.




