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Life & Mortality Quote by Hedy Lamarr

"I don't fear death because I don't fear anything I don't understand. When I start to think about it, I order a massage and it goes away"

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Lamarr turns mortality into a problem of attention management, not metaphysics. The first sentence performs a cool, almost engineerly posture: if fear is triggered by the unknown, then refusing to grant the unknown emotional authority becomes a kind of self-defense. It’s a bold claim, and she knows it. The second sentence immediately undercuts the bravado with something more revealing: she does think about death, it does intrude, and the solution isn’t philosophy but sensation. A massage isn’t an argument; it’s a reset button. The wit is in that pivot from big, existential pronouncement to a worldly, almost pampered practicalities-of-being-alive fix.

Coming from an actress whose public image was built on glamour, the line reads like a small act of sabotage against the expectation that beauty must also be fragile. She doesn’t present fear as a poetic torment; she treats it like a muscle knot. There’s also a sly recognition of how privilege and performance intersect: she can “order” calm the way a star orders room service, but she’s also naming a very human coping mechanism - outsourcing dread to the body, insisting on the present tense.

In cultural context, this is mid-century celebrity stoicism with a modern edge. Lamarr, who later became celebrated for her inventive mind, frames fear as an epistemic issue (“don’t understand”) and then admits the workaround is tactile and immediate. The subtext: rationality is a pose we reach for; comfort is how we actually survive the night.

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Lamarr, Hedy. (n.d.). I don't fear death because I don't fear anything I don't understand. When I start to think about it, I order a massage and it goes away. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-fear-death-because-i-dont-fear-anything-i-54537/

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Lamarr, Hedy. "I don't fear death because I don't fear anything I don't understand. When I start to think about it, I order a massage and it goes away." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-fear-death-because-i-dont-fear-anything-i-54537/.

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"I don't fear death because I don't fear anything I don't understand. When I start to think about it, I order a massage and it goes away." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-fear-death-because-i-dont-fear-anything-i-54537/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Hedy Lamarr

Hedy Lamarr (November 9, 1914 - January 19, 2000) was a Actress from Austria.

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