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Fatherhood Quote by Curt Schilling

"I don't hide my feelings, but when it comes to illness, I guess I don't panic. My father was the same way. I'm the provider for the family and the caretaker. If I panic, who is anybody going to run to?"

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Schilling frames toughness not as macho denial but as logistics: someone has to keep the lights on when a body falters. The line starts with a disarming admission, "I don't hide my feelings", which preemptively rejects the jock stereotype of emotional illiteracy. Then comes the pivot: illness is the one arena where he refuses panic. Not because he feels less fear, but because fear is a luxury he can't afford.

The subtext is inheritance and role-play. "My father was the same way" turns composure into a family tradition, almost a handed-down job description. He's not claiming heroic invulnerability; he's claiming continuity. That matters culturally because athletes are often sold as solitary engines of will. Schilling instead locates strength in obligation: provider, caretaker, the person others lean on. It sounds less like a locker-room slogan than a household rule.

The rhetorical muscle is in the final question, which forces the listener to picture a small crisis economy. Panic becomes contagious; leadership is basically emotional quarantine. There's also a quiet confession tucked inside the bravado: if he's the one everyone runs to, he doesn't get to run to anyone. The quote makes stoicism legible as responsibility rather than hardness, and it hints at the cost of being cast as the family's fixed point: you stabilize everyone else by making your own fear invisible.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schilling, Curt. (2026, January 15). I don't hide my feelings, but when it comes to illness, I guess I don't panic. My father was the same way. I'm the provider for the family and the caretaker. If I panic, who is anybody going to run to? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-hide-my-feelings-but-when-it-comes-to-167237/

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Schilling, Curt. "I don't hide my feelings, but when it comes to illness, I guess I don't panic. My father was the same way. I'm the provider for the family and the caretaker. If I panic, who is anybody going to run to?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-hide-my-feelings-but-when-it-comes-to-167237/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't hide my feelings, but when it comes to illness, I guess I don't panic. My father was the same way. I'm the provider for the family and the caretaker. If I panic, who is anybody going to run to?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-hide-my-feelings-but-when-it-comes-to-167237/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Curt Schilling (born November 14, 1966) is a Athlete from USA.

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