"I don't know anybody's road who's been paved perfectly for them, there are no manuals, you don't know what life has in store for you"
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The subtext is shaped by her particular cultural baggage. Barrymore isn’t a star who arrived via a tidy meritocracy myth; she’s Hollywood lineage plus public chaos plus a long, visible rebuilding. When she says “there are no manuals,” it’s not faux-humble. It’s a rebuke to the self-help-industrial fantasy that the right hacks, routines, or branding will guarantee a stable outcome. She’s arguing for a different kind of competence: improvisation, resilience, and the willingness to move forward without certainty.
What makes the quote work is its refusal to offer a neat takeaway. It doesn’t promise that the unknown “has in store” something good; it just asserts the unknown as the default condition. In a culture obsessed with optimization and “life plans,” Barrymore gives permission to be unfinished. The comfort comes not from certainty, but from solidarity: if the road isn’t perfectly paved, you’re not behind - you’re just living.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barrymore, Drew. (2026, January 15). I don't know anybody's road who's been paved perfectly for them, there are no manuals, you don't know what life has in store for you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-anybodys-road-whos-been-paved-145378/
Chicago Style
Barrymore, Drew. "I don't know anybody's road who's been paved perfectly for them, there are no manuals, you don't know what life has in store for you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-anybodys-road-whos-been-paved-145378/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't know anybody's road who's been paved perfectly for them, there are no manuals, you don't know what life has in store for you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-anybodys-road-whos-been-paved-145378/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








