"I don't know how a fellow looks, when he meets somebody that he hasn't seen, hasn't heard of, don't know where they are, know nothing about the house, whatever"
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The phrasing "how a fellow looks" is doing quiet social labor. It shifts attention from what happened to what can be inferred: demeanor, body language, the kind of thing other people treat as evidence when the facts are missing. Phillips resists that premise. He’s not just claiming ignorance; he’s rejecting the idea that appearance should be legible or prosecutable when context is absent.
Because the profession and source aren’t provided, the most plausible context is testimony or an interview under pressure - a setting where someone is being pushed to reconstruct a narrative they didn’t witness or didn’t register. The rambling cadence suggests stress, defensiveness, or exhaustion, but also an attempt at precision: if you can’t place the person, the house, or even the prior knowledge of their existence, then any account of "how he looks" becomes projection. The subtext is a refusal to perform certainty for an audience that wants a clean story.
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| Topic | Anxiety |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Phillips, Charles. (2026, January 16). I don't know how a fellow looks, when he meets somebody that he hasn't seen, hasn't heard of, don't know where they are, know nothing about the house, whatever. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-how-a-fellow-looks-when-he-meets-117233/
Chicago Style
Phillips, Charles. "I don't know how a fellow looks, when he meets somebody that he hasn't seen, hasn't heard of, don't know where they are, know nothing about the house, whatever." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-how-a-fellow-looks-when-he-meets-117233/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't know how a fellow looks, when he meets somebody that he hasn't seen, hasn't heard of, don't know where they are, know nothing about the house, whatever." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-how-a-fellow-looks-when-he-meets-117233/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.











