"I don't know, I like to go on really different types of dates. Going someplace new or some new part of the city, something that's not your average thing. Something where you just go have an adventure together"
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McAdams is selling a version of romance that’s less about candlelight and more about motion. The point isn’t novelty for novelty’s sake; it’s the way a “new part of the city” turns dating into a low-stakes experiment: How do you navigate together when there isn’t a script? “Not your average thing” is a quiet rejection of performance dating, the kind built around predictable venues and predictable roles. Her language keeps it deliberately unglamorous and accessible. No private jets, no hyper-curated “experience.” Just a different neighborhood, a new doorway, a shared detour.
The subtext is compatibility testing disguised as play. Adventure functions as a social shortcut: it compresses time. When you’re slightly lost, slightly thrilled, slightly outside routine, people reveal their default settings - patience, curiosity, generosity, control. McAdams frames that exposure as bonding rather than evaluation, but it’s both. She’s describing intimacy as something you co-produce in real time, not something a restaurant provides.
There’s also a cultural tell here. For a celebrity whose dating life is often treated like content, “some new part of the city” reads like a bid for privacy and normalcy, a way to keep the focus on connection rather than spectacle. It’s romantic, sure, but it’s also practical: shared “adventure” is a strategy for making a relationship feel like its own world, even when the outside world insists on watching.
The subtext is compatibility testing disguised as play. Adventure functions as a social shortcut: it compresses time. When you’re slightly lost, slightly thrilled, slightly outside routine, people reveal their default settings - patience, curiosity, generosity, control. McAdams frames that exposure as bonding rather than evaluation, but it’s both. She’s describing intimacy as something you co-produce in real time, not something a restaurant provides.
There’s also a cultural tell here. For a celebrity whose dating life is often treated like content, “some new part of the city” reads like a bid for privacy and normalcy, a way to keep the focus on connection rather than spectacle. It’s romantic, sure, but it’s also practical: shared “adventure” is a strategy for making a relationship feel like its own world, even when the outside world insists on watching.
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