"I don't know if I was a desirable person, not just physically but emotionally and mentally and intellectually. I still have a long way go and a lot to learn, but I'm on my way, I don't think I'm terribly attractive, but I'm comfortable with my looks"
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The intent feels less like a confession than a boundary-setting exercise. Duvall isn’t fishing for reassurance; she’s inventorying her own self-concept with a bluntness that reads almost protective. The repetition of “I don’t think” does important work: it signals distance from the verdict, as if she’s reporting what the world has told her and what she’s internalized, without fully granting it authority.
Context matters. Duvall built a career on being singular rather than conventionally “marketable” - a face and energy that directors like Altman could turn into narrative electricity, and that Kubrick could push into something punishingly raw. Her “I still have a long way to go” isn’t a brand of hustle; it’s an acknowledgment that desirability is treated like a curriculum women must complete, with no graduation.
The twist is the closing clause: comfort without self-congratulation. She doesn’t claim she’s beautiful; she claims she’s okay. That’s a modest statement with radical implications in an industry that profits from keeping women slightly unfinished.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Duvall, Shelley. (2026, January 17). I don't know if I was a desirable person, not just physically but emotionally and mentally and intellectually. I still have a long way go and a lot to learn, but I'm on my way, I don't think I'm terribly attractive, but I'm comfortable with my looks. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-desirable-person-not-just-73755/
Chicago Style
Duvall, Shelley. "I don't know if I was a desirable person, not just physically but emotionally and mentally and intellectually. I still have a long way go and a lot to learn, but I'm on my way, I don't think I'm terribly attractive, but I'm comfortable with my looks." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-desirable-person-not-just-73755/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't know if I was a desirable person, not just physically but emotionally and mentally and intellectually. I still have a long way go and a lot to learn, but I'm on my way, I don't think I'm terribly attractive, but I'm comfortable with my looks." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-desirable-person-not-just-73755/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.





