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Education Quote by Shelley Duvall

"I don't know if I was a desirable person, not just physically but emotionally and mentally and intellectually. I still have a long way go and a lot to learn, but I'm on my way, I don't think I'm terribly attractive, but I'm comfortable with my looks"

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Self-doubt rarely sounds this plainspoken in Hollywood, where insecurity is usually repackaged as a charming anecdote on a talk show. Shelley Duvall’s line lands because it refuses that packaging. She doesn’t isolate attractiveness as a cheekbones-only issue; she drags the whole cultural bundle into view: physically, emotionally, mentally, intellectually. In one breath, she names the unspoken audition room math where a woman is evaluated as a composite product, then quietly admits she’s been doing that math to herself.

The intent feels less like a confession than a boundary-setting exercise. Duvall isn’t fishing for reassurance; she’s inventorying her own self-concept with a bluntness that reads almost protective. The repetition of “I don’t think” does important work: it signals distance from the verdict, as if she’s reporting what the world has told her and what she’s internalized, without fully granting it authority.

Context matters. Duvall built a career on being singular rather than conventionally “marketable” - a face and energy that directors like Altman could turn into narrative electricity, and that Kubrick could push into something punishingly raw. Her “I still have a long way to go” isn’t a brand of hustle; it’s an acknowledgment that desirability is treated like a curriculum women must complete, with no graduation.

The twist is the closing clause: comfort without self-congratulation. She doesn’t claim she’s beautiful; she claims she’s okay. That’s a modest statement with radical implications in an industry that profits from keeping women slightly unfinished.

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Duvall, Shelley. (2026, January 17). I don't know if I was a desirable person, not just physically but emotionally and mentally and intellectually. I still have a long way go and a lot to learn, but I'm on my way, I don't think I'm terribly attractive, but I'm comfortable with my looks. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-desirable-person-not-just-73755/

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Duvall, Shelley. "I don't know if I was a desirable person, not just physically but emotionally and mentally and intellectually. I still have a long way go and a lot to learn, but I'm on my way, I don't think I'm terribly attractive, but I'm comfortable with my looks." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-desirable-person-not-just-73755/.

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"I don't know if I was a desirable person, not just physically but emotionally and mentally and intellectually. I still have a long way go and a lot to learn, but I'm on my way, I don't think I'm terribly attractive, but I'm comfortable with my looks." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-if-i-was-a-desirable-person-not-just-73755/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.

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Shelley Duvall

Shelley Duvall (July 7, 1949 - July 11, 2024) was a Actress from USA.

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